You don't dote on or coddle me. You are truthful in what you say and often don't sugarcoat things. Many women (and men, too, I bet) would find this quality a bit harsh and "improper," according to their standards. However, I am happy to take pure truth from you. Sometimes it hurts a bit, because the truth does that, but I'd rather have small hurts from truth than big hurts due to a snowball of lies. We both know how important consistent honesty is to a strong, healthy relationship.
Part of your spoken honesty that always impresses me is that you seem to mindfully put your opinion out there. You don't just say the words you think someone wants to hear. Sometimes, it's quite the opposite. But, when you say something that is deeply thoughtful and positive, I know you really mean what you say. Thank you for all the times that you've known just the right thing to stay to cheer me up and turn things in a positive light.
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